Thursday, January 26, 2012

A big cup of coffee!

Positive thinking! How long does it take for the law of attraction to work???
Power of words is strong and sometimes it works faster than we can imagine.
Few months ago I took my boyfriend for a wine tasting. It was his birthday, so I thought weekend away in the country side, followed by a wine tasting is perfect idea.
We left early in the morning and on the way stopped for a coffee.
''Oh, I wish to have a nice and big cup of coffee'' I said.
''Big cup of coffee?'' my boyfriend asked.
''Yes, it's a long time since I had a nice coffee, so I just wish to have a biiiiiig cup.''
He just smiled and we went to order.
But I got a small cup of bitter coffee, disappointed I drank it and we continued the journey.

When we arrived to our hotel we were nicely surprised how beautiful and charming it was. Dropped suitcase in our room and decided to start with a trip to wine caves. We had 10 minutes before another excursions so while we were waiting, we ordered 2 glasses of champagne. I couldn't help, but notice how beautiful our glasses were.
I looked at my boyfriend and said : ,,Those are our new champagne glasses!''
''Of course'' he answered with a cheeky ton in his voice.
Wine tour was great and we learned a lot. Our tour guide lady mentioned that later, we all gonna have more wine tasting. As soon as I heard that, I asked my boyfriend to ask her, if it's possible to get those champagne glasses. ''I'm sorry but we cannot give them away.''
My boyfriend looked at me, but I told him :'' It's ok, anyway those are our champagne glasses.
''You and your positive thinking'' he replied and smiled.
We continued our tour and finally came the best part, wine tasting.
Of course I went for a champagne and holding a glass in my hand I looked at my boyfriend :
Beautiful champagne glasses, please ask again if we can buy them???

''I'm sorry'', tour lady replayed, ''If we were selling them to everyone we wouldn't have any.''
I looked at my champagne glass and whispered, but I wish to have them.
As soon as I finished my sentence, our bartender (young boy) looked at us and told us.
''Oh, today it's a wine anniversary and we are giving all our guests champagne glasses as a souvenir.''
''Really''???? I replied.
''Yes, you can keep them both.''
''Thank you so much, I smiled. I just hope they not gonna break.''
''Would you like me to put them in a box for you?'' he replied......

On the way to our car smiling and holding my box with 2 special glasses I looked at my boyfriend:
''See, I told you from the beginning those are our champagne glasses.''

Later on we went to see the town and since it was late afternoon, we stopped at the small bar where we ordered coffee.
'' I can't wait to have a…...''
''Yes, yes, a big cup of coffee.” he replied again with a cheeky ton in his voice.
But again I got disappointed when my black coffee came in a small cup.

Next morning we got woken up at 10.00am by the owner of the hotel. She came to tell us breakfast are ready. Breakfast was served in a charming room, with fireplace in the middle. Walking through the door felt like stepping back in time. Everything looked so perfect.
''I'm gonna get you some coffee'', she said. ''Would you like to have some milk with it?''
''No, just 2 black coffees, please''.....we replied.
In 5 minutes she came back and I couldn't believe it.
In her hand she had 2 biggest coffee cups I have ever seen.

She put them on the table and 2 minutes later she came with 2 jugs filled with coffee. One jug was for me and one for my boyfriend.
It was the best and the biggest cup of coffee I ever had.

Moral of this story is, that sometimes we are not aware, how powerful our words are. If we want something truly and deeply from the heart, it might come true sooner then we can imagine.


Your own words are the bricks and mortar of the dreams you want to realize. Your words are the greatest power you have. They can get you on the fast track to manifesting your dreams. The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience.  
~Sonia Choquette~                                 
''The power of the words is real whether or not you are conscious of it. ''

Friday, January 20, 2012

Believe in yourself, you are special!

Sometimes in life, people try to put you down and make you feel bad about yourself.
Whenever you doubt yourself, remember this story below :

You are special - don't ever forget it.

A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a £20 note. In the room of 200 students, he asked. "Who would like this £20 note?"
Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this £20 to one of you - but first, let me do this."
He proceeded to crumple the 20 pounds note up. He then asked. "Who still wants it?" Still the hands were up in the air.
"Well," he replied, "what if I do this?" He dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty. "Now, who still wants it?"
Still the hands went into the air.

My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth £20.Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless; but no matter what happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value.
Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who love you. The worth of our lives comes not in what we do, or who we know, but by ...WHO WE ARE.
You are special - don't ever forget it.

The wisdom of this story is....

Remember that every one of us can make a big difference, if we choose to believe in ourselves and our dreams. Be yourself and always think of the power of your words you have...
People believe only what they see, or what they hear. Therefore, always be positive and don't listen people, when they tell you, that you cannot fulfill your dreams. Always think....''I can do this''.


The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
~Eleanor Roosevelt~

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I love myself no matter what.
I'm proud of all I have accomplished.
Each decision I make creates new opportunities.
I am deserving all the good things in my life.
I am my own unique self - special, creative and wonderful

For positive affirmations to work you first have to create a new habit of consistently practicing your daily affirmations.

''Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle.''
~Christian D. Larson~

In order to succeed, we must first believe that we can and yes :''We Can''!
Visualization works regardless of your current reality, because your subconscious mind can't tell the difference between reality and your imagination. If you can dream it, you can do it... Allow the Law of Attraction to work for you. Trust that it is working for you, trust yourself, you know more than you think you do.


Sunday, January 15, 2012

Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.

''Somewhere there's someone who dreams of your smile....''

Fairytales, who doesn't like them?
Simple girl founding a boy who loves her just the way she is, they have an amazing life and all their dreams come true.
I love watching movies, where everything turns great and people stay happy and in love. Finding the perfect person is something we all wish for and dream of.
Since I was a little girl I dreamed about ''prince charming''.
Everybody was laughing at me and telling me I should wake up and see the reality, that life isn't like in the movies. But I refused to believe and keep continue dreaming about the great love.
Time changed, I grow up, met new people, had a heart broken, did a few hard jobs, but despite all that I never stopped waiting for my prince charming. My friends couldn't understand how can I be still positive after all I had to go through. They kept saying I live in my own world, and should take my pink glasses off and see the reality, but I just replied :
''I believe in love and I know that what I have seen in the movies does exist.''
People couldn't just come up with romantic movies out of nowhere? It must have happened?
As I mentioned in my profile, when I was at the lowest point of my life, by mistake I came across a website about The Law of Attraction. I was surrounded by negative feelings, and thought, let's give it a go. Thanks to the positive thinking my life changed for better and many of my dreams came true.
I met an amazing man who showed me what love is about and he made my dreams come true. I realized it doesn't matter what other people keep telling you, if you believe in something and wanting badly enough, you can make it happen. Miracles are natural and happen to those who believes in them.


 To attract love into your life you first must love yourself. You can create your own affirmations for love, and by repeating them on a daily basis, you accept them into your life and allow your subconsious mind to really believe in them.

Affirmations for love :                                                                                                                              
I deserve love and happiness.
I am attracting loving relationships into my life.
I love and approve of myself.
Love comes to me effortlessly.

,, Just be yourself and do what you want to do. Believe in the power of your imagination, cause I do.''

Love is not a matter what happens in life. It's a matter of what's happening in your heart.
~Ken Keyes~

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Follow your own path!

I have to admit there was a time when I worried way to much, about what other people thought of me. Did they like me, was I good enough?
Then I realized you can't please everyone and trying to do so will keep you stuck and depressed. It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else's eyes.
Now I know that change comes from within and will only happen if you choose to make it so. All you have to do is follow your own path, remain in touch with who you are and do what feels right for you, because you know ''YOU'' better than anyone else. It's really important that you feel good.
Don't wait for other people to be happy for you. Any happiness you get you've got to make yourself.
Your thoughts have power, power to determine how you feel, what you do (or don't do). Become conscious of your daily thoughts and when you get negative thought in your mind, quickly turn it around.

''To be a star, you must shine your own light, follow your own path and don't worry about the darkness, for that is when the stars shine brightest''

Failure is not the worst thing in the world. The very worst is not to try. So keep on trying and do not give up no matter what other people would say.

Surround yourself only with things you love and that makes you feel good. If people tell you, you can't do something, take that as a challenge and prove them wrong. Chances are, they themselves can't do it, or are too afraid to try and are simply bitter about it.


Friday, January 6, 2012

The wise teacher and the jar

There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren't the way you had hoped they would be. That's when you have to tell yourself that things will get better.
When things get intense in your life, a little smile can help you see things in a brand new light.

Please read a short story I heard. Hope it will help you brighten up your day.  -->

The wise teacher and the jar 

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he picked up a very large and empty jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of small pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "Yes." The professor then produced two cans of beer from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now", said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things - your family, your children, your health, your friends, your favourite passions - things that, if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, your car.
The sand is everything else - the small stuff. If you put the sand into the jar first" he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. There will always be time to clean the house, and fix the rubbish. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand".
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that, no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of beers".

''Sometimes you cannot believe what you see. You have to believe what you feel.''
~Morrie Schwartz~

The most important thing is to enjoy your life, to be happy. It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see.

Wishing you all a wonderful weekend.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

If you want a confidence, act as if you already have it.

Do you feel the Law of Attraction doesn't really work for you?
Are you wondering if you’re doing something wrong?

The key is learning to let go, trust and allow things to unfold.It all begins with feeling good and being happy now.
People who only say: I want to be successful, I want to be rich and then doing nothing else are never successful, or rich.
It's only those that follow it up by the phrase '' I'm going to be...'' ( ''I am...'' ) that end up getting what they want. This is where thoughts translate to action and success.
You don't need to know HOW the universe is going to rearrange itself.

If you want a confidence, act as if you already have it.
Believe that something wonderful will happen for you today.
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Remind yourself daily affirmations:
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I am confident.  
People respect me. 

I have the power to realize my goals .

I am proud of all I have accomplished.

 “A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”
~Winston S.Churchill~


Ask, Believe, Receive!

Monday, January 2, 2012

Everything begins with our thoughts…

Everything begins with our thoughts… 

The Law of Attraction, the principle that you attract whatever you focus your energy on (good or bad), works with relationships, money, and anything else you are able to focus on -- even your own health.
So lets started, let's change your thinking, so you can change your life for better.

The thing I love about inspiring quotes is they pack so much wisdom in so few words and immediately make you feel better.

"Thoughts (both positive and negative) are contagious. If you are surrounded by negative people, it’s only natural that you’ll start to think and feel the same way. To improve your outlook on life, spend time with positive people."


"The state of your life is nothing more than a reflection of your state of mind."
~Dr. Wayne W. Dyer ~

Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Look at the sunny side of everything. Think only of the best, work only for the best,and expect only the best. Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. Give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

''Believe in yourself and you can achieve greatness in your life.''
~Judy Blume~