Everyone is important

Few years ago back I started a new job in the office. It was a very small place, actually our team was built from 3 people. And of course the owners, but they were hardly there.

My boss and my colleague were amazing and I'm so happy I had a chance to meet such a great people.

After working there for a while I met the owners.

''What is your name?'' the owner lady asked me.

''My name is Dusana,'' I replied.

''Say it again?''

''My name is Dusana,'' I repeated.

''Well, I cannot say it, so I'm gonna call you Sophie.''

''But my name is Dusana.''

''I really cannot say it, nice to meet you Sophie, you can go back to work now.''

With those words she walked away. I stood there in shock, not knowing what to say.

I couldn't believe it, I was angry, but the owner lady was very old and I didn't want to be rude.

I was young, started my new job, so what to do?

When she came next time I tried to correct her, but doesn't matter how many times I tried, she kept calling me Sophie.

That was a long time ago. I decided to let go. To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else. To let go is not to care for, but to care about.

Everyone is important, no matter what age they are, or what country they are from. We are all the same and we should always respect each other.

Attitude, after all, is everything. Be kinder than necessary for everyone you meet, live simply, love generously, care deeply and speak kindly.
If we appreciate each other, then we have a chance for something great.

''Love''

 Dusana

I would also love to share with you this story just to remind you once again that everyone is important.

Please, enjoy the story!

Do you know her name?
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During Mark's first month of college, the professor gave his students a pop quiz. He was a observant student and had breezed through the questions, until he read the last one: 

"What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?" 

Surely this was some kind of joke. He had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would he know her name? He handed in his paper, leaving the last question blank.

Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward the quiz grade. "Absolutely," said the professor. 

"In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They each deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say 'hello'".

Mark never forgot that lesson. He also learned her name was Dorothy. 

''True forgiveness is when you can say, "Thank you for that experience.''

~Oprah Winfrey~

''To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.''

~Robert Muller~

You can go your own way

I love quotes and my favorites are from Albert  Einstein. 

Whenever I read his quotes they put me in a calming state of knowing, I'm gonna be fine no matter what other people say.

Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something.

Many times when you start doing something new, support is what you need. Your friends become your strength.  

I'm a big dreamer, always trying to follow whatever I set my mind on. I believe if you truly want something, there's always a way to get it. Some of my close friends and of course my boyfriend are supporting me all the time, even though my dreams might sound silly and impossible. They are always there for me with their encouraging words and for that I'm very thankful to them. 

But in life, you always get people which they try to make you feel bad or not help you even when you asked them to help. Negative thoughts stand in resistance to the movement of your life.

Last time I found myself in a situation being let down. And then when I least expect it, I came across this quote.

"I'm thankful to all those who said 'NO' because of them, I did it myself."

~Albert Einstein~

How cool and amazing is this?

At least to me it was. It made me feel better and more positive about the future.

When you know what you want, and want it bad enough, go for it. Keep trying and trying.

You will get better with time and practice.

Truth is, you can have anything you want, if you have a clear picture of what it is and you’re fully committed to making it happen.

I realized ........... After all, it doesn't really matter what others think.

You can do it even when things are tough.

We only get one chance at life, so we shouldn't allow other people’s thoughts make it less enjoyable.

Remember, you can go your own way, because you are amazing.

''Love''

 Dusana 

''If you think you can do it, you can.''

~John Burroughs~

''Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass, it's about learning how to dance in the rain.''

~Vivian Greene~

A Time for Romance

As I mentioned few weeks ago it is good to remind yourself, that there is always something you can do to make situation better than it is.
Summer is here and so it's time for romance.

We all dream about perfect love and the good news is, we all can have it.
Sounds crazy?
Maybe for some people, but I always believed everything is possible, if you really want it and if you go for it.  Believe in your dreams and what you want. Follow your intuition, watch romantic movies and remember that you can have it too.
Important thing is not to force it.

Don’t force yourself to fall in love just because you think it is your turn. Sometimes you may lack confidence in yourself, you may even start to look for someone to make you feel good about yourself. Don't rush, don't do it just to prove that you can find love easily.
Love will find you when you least expect it.
Something great will come along. Something better than you ever planned for.

Today I decided to remind you how to attract love into your life.
You can attract love, by using affirmations, because you are a master of your mind.
Repeat them on a daily basis, until you accept them into your life.

''Love''
 Dusana

Affirmations for love:

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I deserve love and happiness.

I am attracting loving relationships into my life.

I am surrounded by love.

My heart is open to love.

I love and approve of myself.

I project love to everyone I meet.

I have a great relationship.

My relationship is filled with love, passion, understanding and fun. 

The healing power of gemstones can help transform your life, because gemstones are natural products of the earth. There is a great energy and power in a small piece of stone.
Rose Quartz is known as the ''Love Stone''.
It's a pink-colored crystal that carries gentle, soothing energy and gives comfort to anyone whose heart has been wounded. Rose Quartz is an excellent heart-healing gemstone.

You can wear it on you to improve your love luck, or you can hold it in your hand for healing.

Next step is try to Feng Shui your room a little bit. Declutter your room, get rid of dead plants, single objects or negative images, anything that represents cold and anger.

Feng Shui rule is anything in 2's.....

Arrange things always in pairs: 

2 pink candles, 

2 heart pillows on the bed,

2 pictures with love theme (couple in love, two doves),

2 rose quartz. 

Use pink or red candles to heat up your room. Candle light greatly energizes you and your bedroom with sensuality and passion. It will help you achieve your desires.

 

"Someone you haven't met is out there wondering what it would be like to meet someone like you." ~Author Unknown~

''Loving someone and having them love you back is the most precious thing in the world.''

~Nicholas Sparks~

"In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities." 

~Janos Arany~ 

''Don’t force yourself to fall in love just because you think it’s your turn. Wait for a while, maybe cupids are having a hard time searching for the heart that deserves the kind of love you can give.''

~ Unknown~

Peridot

Summer is here ... why not start with an ideal summer stone.

I love gemstones and in my opinion Peridot is a gemstone that you should definitely get to know better. Its lime green to olive green, the perfect little extra to a fresh light summer wardrobe.

A peridot gemstone offers a stunning beauty.

Did you know?

This stone was believed to be a stone of springtime by ancients who considered it a gift from Mother Nature.

Peridot is used for these benefits:

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- Opens new doors to opportunity

- Helps with stress

- Calms the nervous system

- Good for confidence

- Accelerates personal growth

- Increases intuitive awareness

- Peridot opens, cleanses and activates the heart

- Releases negative vibrations 

- Helping to deal with jealousy, anger, envy 

- Used in a necklace, Peridot is a protector against negative emotions

Peridot is also a money stone.  Wear it to draw money and opportunity your way. Place it in your wallet, or your handbag along with Citrine. Peridot will help to draw money to you and Citrine will help to keep it once you get it.

Peridot is the birthstone for August. 

It is supposed to bring the wearer success, peace and good luck. It is also considered as a stone of rejuvenation and restoration of mental and physical well-being. It has also been used for purification and balancing.

And that's not all.
Peridot has other psychological effects and uses. It can greatly improve difficult relationships. It treats phobias, particularly those associated with fears of the dark, becoming like a security blanket to a small child.

A small rough Peridot or a tiny tumbled piece are relatively inexpensive... so why not think about trying one.
With its lovely energy it has the potential to make you feel happier and more positive.

''Love''
 Dusana



''There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.''
~Albert Einstein~

''Optimism is a happiness magnet. If you stay positive good things and good people will be drawn to you.''
~ Mary Lou Retton~

Speaking of chocolate

 

Few days ago was a very cold and rainy day. On days like this I prefere to stay at home, watching nice movie, having a glass of wine, being wrapped up in blanket and of course eating chocolate.

Speaking of chocolate, I'm a huge fun.
I love chocolate any time of the day for any reason :-) 

Do you feel the same?
And also...

Did you know chocolate is good for you?
(Of course in a small amount)

1.) Chocolate makes us feel good

2.) It melts in your mouth 

3.) It really is good for you (in a small amount)
4.) Chocolate isn’t a food, it’s a medicine – an anti-depressant  :-)

5.) Contains antioxidants

6.) Helps the body generate serotonin

What is serotonin?

Serotonin is the happiness hormone that regulates the mood, reduces mood swings and even prevents depression .

But we still have to remember that it is important not to overindulge in chocolate, because it contains high amounts of saturated fats, sugar and can cause health damage or obesity. However, when eaten in moderate quantities, chocolate truly can be a miracle food. 

''Love''

 Dusana

Chocolate and positive thinking, my favorite combination.

''There's nothing better than a good friend, except a good friend with chocolate.''

~Linda Grayson~

''All I really need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt.''

~Lucy Van Pelt~

''Strength is the capacity to break a chocolate bar into four pieces with your bare hands - and then eat just one of the pieces.''

~Judith Viorst~

I have this theory that chocolate slows down the aging process.... It may not be true, but do I dare take the chance?

~Unknown author~

Something little to put a smile on your face!

This guy found a bottle on the ocean, he opened it, out popped a genie and gave him three wishes. 

The guy wished for a million dollars and poof! There was a million dollars. 

Then he wished for a convertible and poof! There was a convertible. 


And then, he wished he could be irresistible to all women... poof! 
He turned into a box of chocolates.  



Now you tell me, why do you love chocolate and when it's your favorite time to eat it?

Feeling irritated

This morning I woke up feeling irritated and moody.
Our moods are like weather, constantly changing. One minute we are ok, next minute we get upset and angry. The worst is, when we feel down and we cannot explain why.
Has it ever happened to you?
Have you ever felt irritated for no reason?

Life can be sometimes an emotional roller coaster. Some days we feel like nothing can stop us . Other days we feel utterly hopeless.

But we all have small rituals which makes us feel better, you know.... those little things we all do to put us in a happy mood.

I can say it is my morning ritual to get a cup of coffee soon after waking up and having it while watching my favorite sitcom Friends.
This always cheers me up.

A ritual  is anything we do repeatedly or in a particular manner.
They can be anything.....(you name it).
Our small rituals connect us, every hour of every day.

Sometimes, when we feel irritated, inspiring quotes, or phrases can help us.

Next time when you feel the struggle is wearing you down, have a look at these quotations for the inspiration.

Positive life sayings help us realize how beautiful life is and also make us appreciate it. 

''Love''

 Dusana

''Beautiful pictures are developed from negatives in a dark room....So if you see darkness or negatives in your life, be reassured that a beautiful picture is being prepared.''

~Unknown ~ 

''You can be absolutely certain that when you feel you are being most unfairly tested, you are being prepared for great achievement.''

~Napoleon Hill~

''The only way out of things. Is through them.''

~Mariska Hargitay~

"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else."

 ~Judy Garland~

Something extra.... a little joke.
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Why did the peanut call 911 ?

Because it was a salted.
 

It's all about making you laugh, brighten your day and cheer you up. After all, laughter is the best medicine.   :-)

I've received the Liebster Blog Award

I've received the Liebster Blog Award

The Liebster Blog Award is given to upcoming bloggers who have less than 200 followers and Liebster is a German word which means sweetest, kindest, nicest, dearest, beloved, lovely, kind, pleasant, valued, cute, endearing and welcome.
Awww....that's so adorable.

RULES
1. Each person must post 11 facts about themselves
2. Answer 11 questions the tagger has given you 

3. Give 11 questions for the people you've tagged.
4. Choose 11 people and link them in your post.
5. Tell them you've tagged them.
6. Remember, no tag backs. 

THANKS! 
First, I would like to thank LUCIE for my nomination for my first award... I'm very surprised and grateful !
I enjoy writing and I'm happy that some of you like my work.  It will help me to keep going! 
Dusana

11 FACTS ABOUT ME

1.) I love traveling

2.) Friends has been my favorite show for years

3.) I love the girls from Sex and the City. Watched every episode billion times and of 

     course the movie

4.) I need coffee first thing in the morning

5.) I love reading

6.) Chocolate calms me down

7.) Cycling is my favorite sport

8.) I love writing and blogging

9.) My favorite quote is:''Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life's coming attractions''

       ~Albert Einstein~

10.) I Believe in the Power of Positive Thinking

11.) And I also believe: The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.     

MY ANSWERS TO LUCIE'S QUESTIONS  

1- If you have some kind of superpowers what will you want? 

    For now I would like to stop time. Actually to free up more time. Time to love more, live fuller and

    being able to travel everywhere. 

2- What's your favorite book?

    My favorite book is ''The Power'' from Rhonda Byrne. The power of positive thinking can change 

    and improve your life. Developing and manifesting a positive attitude makes life happier and more 

    successful.

3- Which author would you choose to have a lunch with?

     I would be very happy to have a lunch with Rhonda Byrne.

4- Which is your favorite male character ?

     My favorite male character is Mr Darcy from Pride and Prejudice.

5- Which is your favorite heroine? 

     Elizabeth Bennet from Pride & Prejudice

6-Do you read comics, mangas, both ? 

    No, not at the moment.

7- When you have time for yourself, how do you like to spend it ?

     I love cycling, whenever I have time I love cycling in the streets of Paris, or in the woods.

8- Can you recommend me a book you were really into it since the beggining of this year ?

    ''The Magic'' from Rhonda Byrne. I strongly recommend it.

 9- How long have you been blogging ? 

     Since January 2012

10- What are you currently reading ?

     ''The Magic''

       In The Magic, Rhonda Byrne reveals this life- changing knowledge to the world. Then, on an

       incredible 28-day journey, she teaches you how to apply this knowledge in your everyday

       life.

     
11- Are you a bookmark reader or a pages corner ?

      I am a bookmark reader.
 

11 people I have tagged to receive the Liebster Blog Award:

1.) Kiran The Travelfury 

2.) Scientist of Sound.

3.) Lis 

4.) AnfinsenArt.blogspot.com 

5.) Divya Bisht

6.) sim capillo

7.)  nicky 

8.) Crystal Burns 

9.) im.Jeca 

10.) Jawad Ahmad 

11.) Emily Brewer

Here my questions for the ones I have tagged: 

1.) How long have you been blogging ? 

2.) What is your favorite book ? 

3.) Who is your favorite author ?

4.) Do you read a lot ?

5.) What do you like watching on TV ? 

6.) Do you like cooking ? 

7.) What is your favorite meal ? 

8.) Why did you start blogging ?

9.) Do you have a pet?

10.) What is your hobby ?

11.) Do you believe in the power of positive thinking ?